TEENAGE DAUGHTER BECOMING REBELLIOUS
This topic triggers some kind of emotional response. It can create fire in the hearts of parents who are having children in adolescent age. It’s a relief for the parents who now have adult children who are not under the age of 18. Adolescents are never easy to deal with; it’s very difficult to understand the teenagers. There are a lot of mood swings in this age, which reflects the personality of the teenagers. This creates a problem for the parents to understand their teen children. Which causes differences between them and all this turns into fights and trust issues between children and parents. Teenager undergoes many changes in this group of age, where they make new friends, get irritated with various things, become rebellious with everyone, their hormones get changed. At this time of age, children should be at peace environment. In this age your child will disconnect from you, they will try to leave the home, they will become their own person, they will grow independent. Basically, it’s a process in which child departs away from their home and parents They start to live their own life with their own rules.
REBELLION IS A BEHAVIOR WITH A REASON
Teenagers always do something because of a reason behind it. Manier times parents don’t understand those reasons behind the behavior of the teen. It’s very important for the parents to know the reason behind that issue or their rebellious nature. Because sometimes this kind of nature makes or breaks the child from within. Sometimes the teens undergo many serious problems like depression because of those issues which are going on in their mind. So its really very important for the parents to know their teens very deeply. Parents should know how their child’s nature is in some situations, how he/she will react to some of the things. Sometimes parents have to struggle to know what their child is going through or to make a clear difference whether he/she is having a healthy nature or a rebellious nature. Because at this age, teenagers hide many feelings from everyone and especially they try to hide everything from their parents.
WHAT PARENTS DO DURING THIS TIME
At this age, teenagers try to move away from their parents. Which creates the blend of panic and a relief for the parents. The loss of control of their children will create panic for the parents and by knowing that your child is in a healthy pursuit of an independent adult, it will be a relief for parents. Don’t get shocked or panicked that you’re the only one who is struggling through all this as a responsible parent, just be open to seek outside support and try to counsel yourself. Make your child try to find what is hurting them inside, this will motivate them to remove the rebellious nature towards everything. Make them strong to face each and every problem in life. Stand with your child, give them the proper support and allow time to pass so that the situation can get better.